July 05, 2012

28/30 - Love language

What is your love language?

It's not really an actual language as much as a way of doing things.  Mind you, I love to listen to the love languages, but i can't understand a damn thing they are saying most of the time.  I know a few words, Like "bella"  And "Bellissimo" (sure i'm spelled that one wrong, lol)  But most of the things they say i just don't understand.

Instead, I prefer doing things.  Reaching out to hold my hand while we are walking or driving.  Leaning over and kissing me in the middle of a fight.  Fixing me breakfast in bed (when I sleep late enough for you to make it, lol) Buying me flowers and a handmade card.  Going for a walk to watch the sunset.  Whispering sweet nothings in my ear while you have me wrapped up in a hug. 

That is my love language.  That is what tells me you love me way more than any foreign language ever could.  And I try to do the same things in return so there is no question.  Now, I have a hard time with some of those.  Probably because my family had such a hard time showing love when I was little.  But I am making an effort, every day, to let those I love know how much I love them.  I just hope they can see.

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