22 and some other thoughts

22 - bullet your whole day

 

Well, my days are always different.  So I'm going to do one for each different schedule of my week.  Not that anybody really gives a crap about what I do in my day, but maybe it can help people understand a little better how I do everything I do

 

Monday through Wednesday

 

Wake up between 7:30 and 8:00

Have coffee and wake up

Help the girls get ready for school

Walk girls to school

Spend a few hours (most days) with Ruben

Ruben goes to bed

Spend time alone till 3:30

Go get girls from school

Help with homework

Get dinner ready

wake Ruben up

Give girls bath

Get girls ready for bed

Ruben goes to work
Shut down house and go to bed

 

Thursday - week 1

Get girls ready for school

Take girls to school

Payday

Run errands

Ruben goes to bed

Pick girls up from school

Homework

Dinner

Wake Ruben

Girls bath

Girls to bed

Ruben to work

Shut house down and go to bed

 

Thursday - week 2

Same as Monday through Wednesday

 

Friday

Take girls to school

Spend day with Ruben

Pick girls up from school

Spend time as a family

Early to bed (usually 9ish)

 

Saturday

Wake up when we wake up

spend day together

dinner

 girls go to bed

Game night

 

Sunday

Relax until 11

get laundry together

go do laundry

home for dinner

hang with Ruben before work

Ruben goes to work

Shut house down and go to bed

 

 

And that's my week, haha.  I know, I know, so exciting huh?  Could be worse though huh?  I just hope that I can find something to do for the days Ruben goes to bed early - like today.  I did have errands today, but I still had an extra three hours to kill, lol.  Not that it's a bad thing, but sometimes it's hard for me to be alone for that long, ya know?

 

Anyway - moving on

 

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It really breaks my heart that people look at me and think I'm normal, and EXPECT me to be normal.  They expect me to be able to do everything the same way a healthy happy person would be able to do it.  I can do EVERYTHING that someone else can do - I just might have to do it in a different way or it might take me a little longer.  Yet people hear that I have MS and refuse to even give me the chance.  I have references out the wazoo, lol.  But nobody even takes the time to call them to find out how I work because they don't like the fact that I have MS.  I know it wouldn't matter if I were going to get a 9 - 5 somewhere because most places have the equal opportunity stuff going on, and they can't NOT hire me because of a "disability", ya know?  But working in the jobs that I want to work in - cleaning houses and helping people organize things - the homeowners just don't want to risk it I guess.  It is seriously frustrating.  And I just wish I could handle it in a way that they KNEW that I can do the job.  Maybe I can figure it out sometime.  I mean, I don't want to HIDE it because that's something that would likely come back to bite me in the ass.  And it would end worse than the other way.  Just frustrating.

 

Ok, sorry, just needed to rant about that for a second.

LATERS!